Thursday 24 May 2018

Holidays...idea generation time for M

We are currently on holiday. The weather has been unseasonably cold but we have nevertheless got out and about and cycled quite a bit.

Because we at usually so busy when working, it can be difficult to take the time to think about our FLR and bring something new. M pushes me on holiday and she demands my instant attention to her needs. She says always, this holiday I have booked "all inclusive"!

Today for example, it was particularly cold on our return cycling trip with a biting north easterly wind. M was frozen, so she took a long hot shower and went to bed with an electric blanket to try to warm up. She told me to fill a hot water bottle, which I did. I made her a cup of tea and I heated up a jam bun for her to eat. She then told me to take her damp clothing and find a good place for them to dry out.

After I had also showered, I got into bed to spoon M. She did not need to ask. I knew it was expected. So she lay there, still really cold, with her electric blanket, hot water bottle and human hot water bottle (me!). I started to say something to her and she simply replied...I want to go to sleep because then I will wakeup warm. Now, staying quiet and not talking is one of the most difficult things for me to do, but I immediately complied. We lay there for and hour until M was warm. In between we both drifted in an out of sleep.

I complied with M's wishes so readily, not only because it was the correct thing to do, which it was, but because not doing so risked increased pain tomorrow morning. M has thought about the FLR and determined that she is introducing daily maintenance spanking each morning from now on, also once the holiday is over. I get five with a wooden spoon as I lie across the bed. If I scream out or move , the five will start over again. So far I have managed it, but it takes real effort because the pain is severe.

After M was warm, she told me that I should start to pack her things as we will be moving on, early morning, in two days time and tomorrow we will be very busy meeting friends. So I got her suitcase and she instructed me which clothes to pack, which to put aside for me to wash, and which to keep out for her to wear in the next two days. After I finished packing her things, I then packed mine.

It was then time to go out from something to eat and we had a lovely meal overlooking a river. Naturally M had the seat that provided the better view.

I love it when M instructs and pushes me like she did today. It meets my needs, and hers too.

Hanna



3 comments:

  1. It is a pity that there are so few comments. I hope you continue with the blog.

    It is a good idea for M to give you five with a wooden spoon each morning. She clearly understands that spanking on the bottom is the right way for a woman to deal with her husband or boyfriend.

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  2. Hello you two.
    Hope you are fine and you continue to maintain your Flr- Relationship.

    Kinda a pity that the Blog is currently resting. Everyday life, as I was painfully shown, can be very engaging when certain things happen.

    Live with my partner also in a FLR relationship.

    Do you feel fine with a letter exchange, for example? via mail?

    I would be happy to hear from you.

    Happy Greetings
    glow

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  3. Hi Glow.

    We have not even checked the blog for almost 18 months, but on a whim I checked in tonight not expecting to see any comments.

    I guess the reason we let it drop is that is easy for the blog to become a driver...almost like needing to have something to publish. Also it was a bit unnerving that the only comments we got in the period before our pause related to spanking etc... it felt a little like voyeurism.

    So, we are still in a very successful FLR. We have both said recently that we both need this lifestyle to be truly happy.

    Things evolve. I am more restricted now than ever, but this is what I also need. In the past year M has taken up dancing, for which she has a passion. I did not get a choice. She mentioned it to me this time last year. I expressed my view that I cannot dance and really had no interest in it. Come Christmas Day, guess what was wrapped for me under the tree. DANCING SHOES. Needless to say, I am now dancing three times a week. Surprisingly, I actually can...LOL.

    Thanks for posting your comment. We will blog again, perhaps on a less regular basis but with a series of blogs that are more an update on how our lives evolve.

    Hanna

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